Guidelines of Love

"LOVE" is Musical, Romantic & Poetic, provided you know how to establish it.Following are the most essential guidelines that should be maintained to achieve the "LOVE OF YOUR LIFE".Please don't take it as a joke because the guidelines are provided by one of the leading Psychiatrist.

1. Be true & reliable to the person whom you love.

2. First know the "Love of your life" & then proceed.

3. Be confident, free, frank, bold, liberal, generous, responsible & dignified in making "The relationship of lifetime".These qualities remove suspicion, jealousy, fear, anger, hatred, inferiority/superiority complex & obsession.That is, build up your own personality & be matured enough to carry out the relationship with honor.

4. Make the love-relationship interesting & humorous, but definitely not boring, monotonous & disturbing.Do something new & different.Keep the charm intact.

5. Have patience & proceed slowly but steadily.You'll surely win the race.

6. First deserve then desire...if you've an ambition to establish this sweet relationship with somebody very special & dear to your heart, then get yourself wholly accomplished (physically & mentally) so as to get a permanent position & acknowledgement from your beloved's side.Create a deep, non-erasable impression in the heart of your "Love", keeping in mind his/her own attitude (sometimes in the zest of creating impression, without knowing the temperament of that "Special Person", people create negative impression...be very perticular about this thing).So, mutual understanding is quite essential.For that, first be good friends....chat, roam, have party, stay as close as possible (ofcourse don't intrude), think whether both of you can adjust with one another or not, slowly get intimated & if everything goes correctly, then CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU!!...as you're the ultimate winner of the heart of your "LOVE".

7. Honor the sentiment & feelings of your "LOVE".Share ideas, try to solve his/her problems in a diplomatic way so that your "Love" doesn't have the feeling in mind that you're dominating or dictating him/her.Be friend...not dictator.

8. Love deeply & passionately.Although speechless love is far more deep & true than those with too much negotiation, but still some talks are essential before final conclusion.Always provide that time & chance.Never lose hope or get depressed.Life is ever-changing.Believe in LOVE...Trust in LOVE.

9. Never ever impose your own thoughts, mentality & decision.Never put restriction & snatch away freedom from your "Love's" life, as love is not imprisonment, love is vast & free.Don't ever treat your love as your own personal property & make him/her isolated from everything or everybody.In that case, you'll never be able to get the golden touch of pure love & will finally get the tag of a "Murderer".

Love cannot be achieved by force.If you're facing some kind of problem, then discuss it with your "Love" & solve it peacefully, but never get desperate & your attitude will lead to cruelty & ultimate destruction of this "Divine Relationship".Initiate this relationship with "Love" & not with false"Hatred" or "Rivalry".

10. Always keep your love-relationship a private & personal one.Never give over-exposure as then your "Love" can feel that you're scandalizing him/her & thus feel humiliated.Don't ever offend your love in that way.Then your own "Love" will never be free & comfortable with your company & will always feel that you'll disclose everything to everybody.First take the consent of your "Love" & then give publicity of this "Priceless Relationship of your Life".

11. Don't hesitate or hide to express your feelings to your "Love".Don't ever try to deliver your own feelings towards the person whom you love through somebody else.Be straight-forward, nice & dignified in expressing yourself.Always be in your original self & use your original name while expressing your own deep feelings.If you cannot reach to this level, this shows your own weakness & unability to establish this "Responsible Relationship" by yourself; also it is an exposure to your very own private feelings towards your "Love", which is quite objectionable & matter of ridicule.

12. No matter how close you are in your personal life but still, both of you should have your own independent identity in the professional life.Both of you should have that mutual understanding between yourselves that never ever in your life, you'll get these two lives clashed with one another.This is the most serious issue that both of you have to deal with.Your personal relationship should be healthy enough so as to prevent all the hazards arising in professional life from effecting the "Lovely most personal Relationship".

So, these are basic guidelines that should always be kept in mind before starting a "Sweet & Serious" Relationship of "LOVE".LOVE is fun....LOVE is life....LOVE is the most expensive gift in someones life....these are all very common & justified quotation, but as a result of small miscalculation, LOVE can make or break a whole life.Obviously, it is not a child's play.Thus, a person should have some seriousness before establishing it.

Forward it to the person whom you think to be "LOVE OF YOUR LIFE" & just say those words that you cannot express still now & see what response comes!!May be it is your first step or last chance, doesn't matter...but be brave enough to deliver your own feelings.